Last night after much contemplation of the triada, I decided to frog it.  I had a feeling it would end up being too small.  Michelle's was tight on her and I have a bigger frame than her.  I thought about ripping it out and adding more stitches, but I wasn't sure if I would have the length I needed and really I never plan on wearing it as a cowl or a scarf, the main point was to wear it as a shoulder cover, mini-poncho or something.  And the yarn really wasn't the soft, so since I wasn't feeling the love, screw it.  I ripped it out and I will probably make some sort of scarf at another time.